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More to read on divorce in the Progressive Era

I posted here about one aspect of the 1902 McAllister–Young divorce and subsequent custody battle, and offered up a single lonely suggestion for further reading: ‘Divorce in the Progressive Era’, a 1965 paper by William O’Neill. Recently I’ve found more, so here’s a list:

  • Nelson M Blake: The Road to Reno (1962)
  • William O’Neill: Divorce in the Progressive Era (1967; this is a book with the same title as his paper)
  • Elaine Tyler May: Great Expectations: Marriage and Divorce in Post-Victorian America (1980)
  • Norma Basch: In the Eyes of the Law: Women, Marriage, and Property in Nineteenth-Century New York (1982)

I haven’t read these yet, but reviews show that May’s book challenges the conclusions of O’Neill’s book pretty strongly, and that O’Neill in turn considers May’s book deeply flawed. His opinion is on record because the mischief-makers at the Journal of Social History got him to review it, surely knowing full well that cutting remarks would be made. And they were: “Elaine Tyler May’s book will disappoint [...] In her defense it must be said that divorce is harder to study than might at first be supposed.”

Other reviews by people without any obvious axes to grind are more positive, and make the nature of the disagreement clearer: “May not only attacks William O’Neill’s idea that divorce was an aspect of women’s emancipation, but stands it on its head. Divorces increased, she maintains, because men and women entertained mounting expectations of marital bliss, only to be disappointed (her argument does not invalidate, however, O’Neill’s contention that divorce – as the alternative to separation – actually strengthened the institution of marriage).” (Rhodri Jeffreys-Jones, Journal of American Studies)

I found the Basch book reviewed by May, and thought it sounded relevant to the McAllister–Young situation; I don’t know how useful it would be to someone with a more general interest. I’m more drawn towards May and Basch because their books are more recent (and because they’re women, I suppose), but I’ll also look out the O’Neill. Not sure about Blake; all I know of his book is that O’Neill cites it as a general work predating his own.

Now some papers:

No doubt there’s more out there, but these are the ones I’m working my way through at the time of writing.

Spinster aunts, part two: Ruth Esther Rockwood (1889–1969)

Looking up the school where Ruth taught immediately changed my view of her career: it turns out that Omaha's Technical High in the 1920s was new, large, and very much talked about.

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Spinster aunts, part one: Grace Duncan (b.1885)

In 1913 Grace emigrated, unaccompanied, to America, heading straight for the burgeoning industrial paradise of Detroit.

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Ruby’s house: where local history intersects with snooping

We went to view a house today.

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“Mrs Jongers cast off the writ and trampled on it”: two versions of a 1903 incident at Christopher Street Pier

The very first thing that I stumbled across when I began researching Louise D’Aubray McAllister (b. 1874) on a whim one idle evening was this New York Times article, dated 19 June 1903, detailing a dramatic set of events among the crowds at a Manhattan pier:

NYT, 19 June 1903. Click to enlarge.

 

 

 

 

Three days later, on 22 June, the paper printed the shorter follow-up below. Note the circled paragraph: this is the Times quietly sneaking in a correction, clarifying that its breathless account of the incident had been wrong on some crucial points. No kidnap took place at the pier that day, after all, and there had never been any plan for the little girl to travel with her mother and stepfather on their honeymoon trip. However, Louise’s ex-husband Alexander C. Young did have form for this sort of thing, and did go on to snatch their daughter from her grandmother’s care in a separate incident very soon afterwards.

NYT, 22 June 1903.

I didn’t know it at the time, but I’d hit a startlingly productive seam of sensational stories relating to this branch of the family. They’re such very distant connections – Louise was my 2nd cousin 3 times removed – that I hardly think of them as relatives at all, but they’re no less interesting to me for that. Alexander Young is a particularly colourful figure about whom I’d like to write more (probably not here, though. He was many things, but he wasn’t a woman).

Quantities of newly digitized historical newspapers are becoming available online all the time, and it can be interesting to look at the varying ways in which different papers cover an incident. I recently found another version of this story in the St Louis Republic, dated 21 June 1903 – after the first NYT report, but before the correction. The Republic takes a very different approach to the initial (incorrect) story of the kidnap attempt at the pier, putting a kind of proto-Daily Mail/Fathers4Justice-style spin on it.

St Louis Republic, 21 June 1903 (enlarge it to read).

Observe the contrasting perspectives at work: while the Times casts Louise and her new husband as relatively dignified victims of Young’s shouty, uncouth behaviour during what, we are told, was his fourth (!) attempt to kidnap his daughter, the Republic does everything it possibly can to make Young into a wronged hero. So the Times has “Snatched Baby at Pier: Alexander C. Young Took His Child From Its Mother”, while the Republic chooses to run with “Regained Child at Ship’s Pier: Recently Divorced Woman About to Take Little Girl Away With New Husband”. Damn those divorced women with legal custody! What’ll they try next?

The Republic‘s account opens with a description of Louise walking up the gangplank in front of a hissing crowd, “leaving behind her 3-year-old daughter, who had been taken from her on habeas corpus proceedings”. The implications that the crowd disapproved of Louise, that she was calmly abandoning her child at the last moment after having planned to travel with her, and that Young’s service of a writ had achieved a legitimate goal, are clear (and, it seems, completely invented). Next, the paper snidely suggests that Louise has “figured prominently” in the divorce courts “during the last ten years”, making no mention of the fact that her only divorce – from Young, who’d himself had two divorces, though this too is left out – was granted on grounds of his adultery and misbehaviour.

Then there’s the explanation that Louise has married again. To an artist, no less. And he’s French. Both papers give most of this information, but it’s only in the Republic‘s version that you get the feeling some eyebrow-waggling is being conveyed between the lines. And let’s not overlook the disorderly conduct, ascribed by the Republic to Louise and her husband rather than to Young: “So violent were the protests of Jongers and his wife that the uproar attracted the attention of the crowd on the pier, and the police were obliged to step in and restore order.”

The battle for little Louise rolled on for quite a while after this mostly-imaginary incident hit the headlines. It was widely reported, and most of the coverage that I’ve read tends towards either condemning Young’s behaviour, or describing events in a way that flatters neither parent. Sometimes there’s a bit of a sardonic “see how the rich live!” tone. But the attitude that colours this Republic piece, so keen to present Louise in the worst possible light, is rarely seen and does set it somewhat apart from the rest. Whether the paper’s editorial stance was a little backward-looking on this point, more than usually attached to a disapproving view of divorced women that was gradually being left behind by many people, I don’t know.

This page has a useful, brief account of changing laws and trends in US divorce and child custody disputes over the years. William O’Neill’s 1965 article “Divorce in the Progressive Era” from American Quarterly is worth reading as well if you’re researching the issue. No doubt there’s other, newer research to be found as well, and I’d be glad to hear from anyone who can point me towards it.

Header image: View to the south from Christopher Street Pier c.2008, sourced from Wikipedia (public domain).

“An object lesson in graceful living”

This is the text that my great-uncle Ray read at Augusta Hylander’s memorial service in Hamilton, NY in 1965. (Ray was her son-in-law.) I’ve been meaning for ages to post it as a footnote to her memoir.

It’s the final bit of material I have to add about Augusta’s life, at least for now – but I still hope, one of these days, to find out more about the story of her childhood homestead surviving within the grounds of Malmö Airport. If anyone reading this knows any more about that, do please get in touch. Read more

‘Pretty Little Mrs Cassell Honorably Discharged’: what happened next in Hoboken, 1893

Yesterday I posted about Agnes Mills Kosel’s arrest on her wedding day, as reported in the 8 March, 1893 New York Herald. The incident was covered in more than one paper, and the next day this follow-up appeared in New Jersey’s Evening Journal. Note the Anglicized spelling here of Agnes’s married surname, which was actually Kosel; I’m inclined to wonder whether this was deliberate, as other newspapers – less local to the events – got it right. Read more

‘Law’s Cruel Hand Takes the Bride’: an incident in Hoboken, 1893

I’ve been reading a lot of old US newspapers online in the course of my research recently. They are fascinating: I particularly love the Library of Congress’s Chronicling America site, which has a wide range of digitized newspapers dating from 1836 to 1922 in searchable, downloadable PDF form, free. I’ve found tons of useful things there, as well as at GenealogyBank (a paid site) and in the New York Times archive (mixture of free and paid).

I keep spotting all kinds of interesting stuff in passing. This New York Herald article from 8 March 1893 came up as a false positive on a search I was doing for Hoboken, NJ weddings in that year. I am easily distracted, so I ended up reading the whole thing and then searching for more information, even though the people concerned were in no way connected to my family. I was completely drawn in by the poetically embellished story of brave, stoical Agnes with her rosy cheeks, her manly young fruit-growing suitor, and her firm Scottish father in thrall to Agnes’s wicked young stepmother. Read more

Mary M Brown, 1871–1953

Born in New York City in the spring of 1871, Mary (christened Margaret Braun) was the eldest child of German immigrants Frederick Braun, a carpenter, and Bertha Schneider Braun. They would eventually have four more children, including twin girls of whom only one survived infancy.

In 1880, the family – by now listed with the spelling Brown, which is what they seem to have used most of the time after this – occupied an apartment at 604 West 49th Street in midtown Manhattan. I was excited to find the address on Street View; less so to learn that it’s now a FedEx depot. Read more

Stones: South Leith churchyard, part two

Maltmen, and lots of them: that’s what you’re getting in this post. I didn’t seek them out, but most of the interestingly carved stones I saw on the day I took these photos happened to belong to maltmen.

The website of the Trades House of Glasgow suggests that, historically, there may have been some women working as maltsters in Scotland:

Unlike most other crafts, some members were probably women, as there were many female tavern-keepers or publicans.

Not, in itself, a completely convincing bit of reasoning, but it got me interested enough to look for more information. Read more

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